We found out that we were going to parent Ollie on the Thursday after Easter this year.  We were in Hanmer.  Bonnie and I had gone to the pools, and Ian had remained at the cottage to read his book and relax.  When we returned from our soak there was no sign of Ian.  Bonnie went looking for him on her bike.  But he turned up shortly after she left.  He came running down the driveway, arms outstretched saying "We got him!  We got him!"  Our dreams came true.